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Empathy: Superpower, or Kryptonite?
The claim of being an empath is an idea or concept that I feel, quite like the term "narcissist" has become more of a buzz-word in the...
itsjustkela
Jan 212 min read
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Darkness is Not New to Me.
I'm used to it.... [At least that is what I tell myself] I’m used to being the go-to for everyone else. I’m used to being the reliable...
itsjustkela
Jan 122 min read
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Finding Peace in the Experience.
There’s a quiet peace I feel when I’m in the presence of someone who truly sees me. Something shifts in me—a calmness that eases the...
itsjustkela
Dec 16, 20242 min read
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Beauty in the Unknown
Sometimes, the best parts of life are not planned. It may be accidentally stumbling upon someone where you feel an instant connection,...
itsjustkela
Dec 6, 20241 min read
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Once in a Lifetime
Instantly —— you were the first person i had ever felt both wildly unsure of and yet also unwaveringly certain of… the enlightenment that...
itsjustkela
Dec 5, 20241 min read
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Sweet Serenity
The words are hard to grasp to accurately express how a simple act of sharing a space, or being in the state where your soul recognizes...
itsjustkela
Dec 5, 20241 min read
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If my Heart could speak…
I want to be able to fully convey how I honestly feel. But I am not convinced even I fully know what emotions it is that I am...
itsjustkela
Nov 30, 20242 min read
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It was a GOOD day.
“You’re such a good mom” 5 words. Five simple words, a quick compliment in the moment is all it took to stun the breath in my lungs and...
itsjustkela
Nov 30, 20241 min read
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Safety is not an illusion with them…
They are safe. & I don’t know if they can fully grasp what that means to me. I didn’t ever seek them out in the hopes that they would be...
itsjustkela
Nov 30, 20242 min read
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Ramble Dump
she is perfectly imperfect she is stubborn, intense, spirited, and unfiltered she doesn’t know how to hold middle ground - it is all or...
itsjustkela
Nov 26, 20241 min read
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The doubt creeps…
I know I’m getting strongly attached again when I care about their wellbeing with so much intensity it hurts. It does not matter whether...
itsjustkela
Nov 25, 20242 min read
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I Didn't Mean to GHOST You...
It has been busy, but it has also been a good last few months. I was finally looking forward to starting a project of my own, but in true...
itsjustkela
Aug 15, 20245 min read
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Medical Gaslighting - a journey to answers (ish).
"Chronic pain patients hide it so well, you can't go by how they look on the outside. They have to learn how to function with pain, you...
itsjustkela
Feb 23, 20247 min read
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